Effort-less!

I have tried to fit into their life to please them,

I have tried to change my ways to accommodate them,

I have tried to change myself to make them happy,

But.. they still left!

Wise people say that we need to put effort into a relationship, somehow, I realised we put effort only when one of the partners is not willing to be there or we lack the patience & understanding to adjust naturally.

If they do not want to be with us they will leave sooner or later.

If we are not able to adjust naturally & trying to make efforts, we will also stop doing that sooner or later!

I strongly believe now –

if there is a mutual respect for each other’s personality, nature, & individuality;

if there is a mutual existence without judgement;

if we do not push each other so much to reach limits or cross boundaries;

if we ACCEPT each other & can live EFFORTLESSLY with each other;

we can give in more than what they expect from us beyond our so-called unwanted efforts & can receive the same.

People work best when they are doing it as per their will and choice. Duty-bound actions often fail in a short period.

Yeah! It is easy to say and tough to work this up but, this is the only reality of a happy relationship.

Be kind to yourself, be yourself, and let them be. If you are destined to be together, it will happen effortlessly.

•Aafreen